January 2025 – It’s Been One Year

by Erik Soderborg |
January 10, 2025

Welcome to 2025!

I wrote a check today – remember those?
Those pieces of paper we used to use to pay other people?

I had to sign the date of 2025 for the first time, and it always takes me a few weeks to get used to signing the new year.

I usually start by writing 2024, realize my mistake, and try my hardest to change the ‘4’ to look like a ‘5.’
Luckily, I had a lot of practice of trying to change ‘B’ and ‘C’ grades to ‘As’ before my parents saw my report cards.

We’ll see how long it takes for me to write 2025 without hesitation.

Here is the agenda:

  1. United Healthcare & Dr. Oz Recap
  2. The Social Security Fairness Act Implications
  3. A Book Recommendation
  4. 1-year Anniversary
United Healthcare and Dr. Oz Recap

I did something new for this one.

I tried doing a YouTube Live to address the topic I covered in last month’s newsletter.

More specifically – What can we believe around news claims about denials and Dr. Oz’s plans for Medicare?

YouTube Live is a bit tricky.
Talking into the camera means I can’t see all the comments.

If I’m staring at the comments, it means getting a cohesive thought out of me becomes challenging.

This led to me talking for a bit… and spammers loading up the comments with garbage.

Once I saw it, I was able to remove them, but that distracted me to where I didn’t realize when I was or was not sharing my screen.
As well as not realizing my screen was too small for anyone to see without a microscope… but I think the general information and data was conveyed.

If you haven’t seen it already, here is that video with a lengthy Q&A session at the end.
Chapters are along the bottom of it if you want to skip to certain parts.

Click the picture or here to watch:
United Healthcare and Dr. Oz Video

Important Disclaimer
What I do NOT want people to take away from this is that I love any certain company or plan type.
That is not the point of the video.The whole point of the video was there are viral news articles that are at best… laughably inaccurate and at worst… blatantly fraudulent.
United Healthcare and all other insurance companies offering Medicare Advantage plans have prior authorizations and deny claims.
The question we are all trying to figure out is how many claims are denied and, more importantly, how many claims are denied that should have been approved.

You, me, every agent I know personally, and every insurance company employee I know personally want to fight against improper denials.
To do this effectively, we all need to be working with real, credible data to be able to make wise decisions. 

Social Security Fairness Act

On January 5th, President Biden signed into law the Social Security Fairness Act.
A lot of the headlines and YouTube thumbnails talk about all this money that is going to be paid to Social Security beneficiaries. Things like, “$1,500+ a Month More!” and other similar headlines.

This Act eliminates the Windfall Elimination Provision (WEP) and the Government Pension Offset (GPO).

These applied to government employees as well as some nonprofit employees who had their Social Security benefits reduced as a result of not contributing to the Social Security Trust Fund over the course of their careers in government employment.

This makes up about 2.7 million individuals, or about 3% of those collecting Social Security benefits.

I was able to sit down with Tyler Williamson to go over this information in more detail.
He is a business partner with a regular contributor – Zacc Call – and a Social Security expert.

Check out the video for more details on this Act.

Click the picture or here to
Social Security Fairness Act Video

Book Recommendation

Each year, I publish my list of books read for that year.
My goal is to finish 1 book a week, which would put me at 52 finished books a year.

I listen to most books on Audible or my library app – Libby.

I wrote a post a few years ago on my strategy to read more books here:
Read More Books

I did not hit that number this year.
I’ll be open with you… I was kind of disappointed in myself.

Was I lazy?
Distracted?
Unmotivated?

Those were the first things that came to mind.
But, then I started reflecting on 2024 and what happened.

  • Went off on my own to go full-time YouTube.
  • Took the family on a 48-state road trip to cover Medicare in each state.
  • Tackled the most challenging Annual Enrollment Period in recent memory from October – December.
  • Spent more quality time with my wife and kids over the past 9 months than any year in recent memory.

And I started to realize, it wasn’t a failure.
I wasn’t just wasting time.

Some of those other things are more important than finishing the next book.

So… the book recommendation this month is really just a list of the books read this year with some ratings next to them.

2024 Book List

For those who have been part of this newsletter for a while, you’ll recognize some titles.
For those who are new, you get more surprises 🙂

Your Recommendations
I would love your book recommendations of what I need to read in 2025!
There’s the secret code word… What Books Should I Read?
An earlier appearance than normal.

Words of Wisdom – It’s been 1 year.

Today marks 1 year to the day since I lost my mom to her fight with cancer.

In my opinion, it’s those firsts that are hardest.

Our kids’ first birthdays without their grandma.
Her first birthday where I can’t call her and wish her happy birthday.
Our first family reunion over Labor Day without her.
My first birthday ever without her letting me know how much she loves me.
The first Thanksgiving… first Christmas…

Once you lose someone like that, there will always be a hole, and I get that.
That hole isn’t as big as it was a year ago, but it’s still there.

Two of my mom’s siblings passed away this year as well, which is pretty crazy to think that 3 siblings passed away in about 10 months.
Some of you may have seen that a coworker of mine passed away unexpectedly at the beginning of December as a result of a tragic accident.
A good friend of my wife passed away this past week from a freak accident while getting surgery.

Life is fragile.

This isn’t meant to bring us all down, so stick with me as I attempt to turn this around.

If Today Was Your Last Day
I am unashamed of my love for the Canadian rock band – Nickelback.

They have a song called, “If Today Was Your Last Day,” which is similar to many other songs that cover the idea of – What would you do if you knew this was it?

Most of us won’t have a chance to control how we go out, but the thought crosses my mind more than it should.

What’s it going to look like?
Will I be scared?
Will it hurt?
Did I make a difference?

Just a YouTuber

My wife has a family reunion on Christmas Eve each year where we all get together.
It’s usually quite awkward, but my aunt makes delicious Swedish meatballs, so I keep to myself and shovel an ungodly amount of meatballs into my mouth.

One of the family members asked, “So, Erik… what are you doing for work these days?”
“Well… I’m a YouTuber, I guess.” I answered.
Their response, “So, you’re unemployed? No, really… what are you doing for work?”

I don’t think they were trying to make me feel bad.
Frankly, I need to work on my answer to that question.

What do I do for work?
What am I doing with my life?

I don’t get to tell people that I’m something cool like my best friend who became an orthopedic surgeon.
Or my other close friend who’s an attorney.
Or my high school teammate who played in the NFL for 10 years.

I’m just a guy who makes videos on YouTube talking about Medicare, Social Security, Financial Planning, and Estate Planning.
And, if today was my last day, what is that legacy?

I would hope that I would be remembered as a kind, tender husband.
A loving, supportive father.
A loyal friend.
And someone who tried to help others with complicated retirement topics on YouTube.

In the grand scheme of things… with us spinning on a blue marble in the middle of the universe at 67,000 miles per hour, with trillions of galaxies out there… does it really matter?
And the answer for 99.999% of everyone who has ever lived is… No.
Nothing I have done or said… or will ever do or say… will matter to them.

And that’s okay.

Because there is one gorgeous girl, 3 little kiddos, and 2 dogs who think I do matter.
And that’s enough for me.

What About You?

Here’s what I want you to know.
And I mean this with all sincerity.

YOU matter to me.

You may be thinking, “C’mon, Erik… you don’t really even know me.”
And you are probably right.

There are a lot of people who get this newsletter message who I’ve never met.
Who I probably will never meet. Who I’ve never even spoken with, or emailed them outside this newsletter, or even know their name.

But a humbling experience that hits me every day is the fact that, starting April 1st to this exact moment of me typing this sentence, there have been 2,382 real-life human beings who saw my face on YouTube… thought what was presented there was a reasonable enough reason to find their way to TheRetirementNerds.com… find the Newsletter sign up page… type their name and email address into the fields… and pressed the button that said, “Erik, we’d like to hear from you.”

That’s not what the actual button says, but it’s what I think whenever I see it.

And that may seem like such a small act on your part, but it is unbelievably meaningful to me.

YOU matter to me.
More than you will every understand.

2025
With the new year, I hope you and yours are healthy, are happy, are more comfortable with your retirement decisions, and are feeling peace in your own life.

Every newsletter message and video I make this year is with that thought in mind.
“How can I present useful, real information in a way to help my friends feel better?”

Thank you for your presence and support in my life, and the difference you make for me.
I love hearing from each of you, and I’ll see you next month.

Erik

Miss you like crazy, mom.
Love you the most.

– Your Punkin.